Please read this enlightening blog entry by our own Janet Frieling who yesterday was honored with receiving the Non Profit Leadership Alumni Community Impact Award.
Have you ever wanted a “do over’? At three in the morning, I delivered the best thank you speech ever-alas, no one was inside my head to hear it but me!! Last night I had the honor of getting the first ever Non Profit Leadership Alumni Community Impact Award from my alma mater, Seattle University. My dear friend and colleague, Mari Offenbecher, nominated me for my work here at School’s Out Washington over the past several years. I did give a brief thank you speech but was not really prepared to remember all things that should have been said. So here is the do over part-this is what I wish I would have said:
I can still remember the first day of class with the Master of Non-Profit Leadership Program at Seattle University in August of 1996. The first class assignment was to visually represent why we chose to pursue this degree and what we hoped to gain from the program. I remember thinking that my goal was to be the best team member at SOWA and to support Mari in her leadership of the organization to my fullest potential. What was different from my classmates was that all of them were hoping to secure a different job or career. I had no desire to leave my role at School’s Out, I just wanted to learn and grow and be the best I could be where I was. The program provided me with immense skills, challenged my way of thinking, and helped me to be more strategic in the questions I posed along the way. It gave me a foundation that I had not previously had and gave me confidence to lead at multiple levels. I would encourage others to investigate the MNPL program if you are seeking to broaden your skills, knowledge and network in the non-profit sector.
During the MNPL program, I was a full time team member at SOWA, a full time Mom to a high school senior and an 8th grader, and the conference coordinator for the 1998 National Afterschool Alliance Conference for 2000 participants. A full plate to be sure! With the support of Mari, and many others along the way, I persevered and both my son and I walked in ceremonies to celebrate our accomplishments in 1998. How wonderful to have a program designed for working folks who want to obtain more education!
Those attending the ceremony last night were my son Jeremy Frieling and his girlfriend Jennifer. Jeremy is currently working in an afterschool program with middle and high school youth who need a special mentor in their life-that is indeed Jeremy. Shelley Brittingham, who hired me for my first job in Washington, was also there. Shelley encouraged me early in my career here to go out and join others in the field and learn best practices. This provided the launching pad for me to get active and learn about School’s Out Washington. Mari Offenbecher who took the time to nominate me for the award and has been my strongest supporter over the years was there to wish me well. Mari has provided inspiration, encouragement, guidance, and opportunity to dabble in all things advocacy related over the years. Without her support and cheerleading, I would not have landed where I am today.
Also at the celebration last night was Laura Wells, now the Executive Director of Fight Crime, Invest in Kids. Laura and I have worked closely in many aspects over the years, but she provided the most inspiration and mentoring during our days as co-chairs for Child Care Works for Washington. From Laura I learned many skills including listening and diplomacy that continue to serve me well. Kathleen Pierce, my professor at SU for the advocacy class also shared the evening with me. She provided some technical skills and knowledge in her class and has continued to keep track of me and offer encouragement to my efforts through-out my career. Tim Sweeny, my current partner and strongest cheerleader helped to make the night even more special.
Not in attendance, but very much a part of my being last night are both my parents whom have passed away in the last year. Both encouraged a life of community service and civic action. My Dad was a huge influence in my work to figure out ways around things when someone says “no”. He didn’t necessarily appreciate my learning at his expense, but supported me and gave me confidence to always question nonetheless.
Of course other class members and alumni from the SU MNPL program were there as well and wishing me well- thanks to you all. A special thanks to Michael Bisesi, the MNPL Director who continues to encourage and support my growth and career.
So that is my musing and “do over” from 3:00 am and much more succinct than what I delivered at the dinner last night. Thanks again to everyone.